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Are you a busy entrepreneur or professional who can’t seem to make time for a love life? How do you expect things to change if you never take action? Last time I checked, UPS was not in the business of shipping dates to your home.

I have been interviewing entrepreneurs and professionals world-wide over the last few months. At least 90% had some key recurring beliefs that were FALSE!

And that’s exactly why I’ve written this must-read post. I’ve been making waves in my industry exposing many of these myths – I’m about to address 3 of them right now in this article!

Dating Myth #1: Online Dating is Time-Consuming.
Dating Fact:
Online Dating can be quick, simple and successful if you have a plan. Try the 30-Minute Email Plan. Dedicate 15 minutes a day, twice a week, to answering email. For example, Sunday is a great day to answer e-mail if you’d like to have a date lined up for the next weekend. Wednesday is mid-week and by then you may have some offers for the weekend or the following week. Stick to this simple schedule and you won’t get worn out.
Note: Don’t worry about men who fuss if you take a couple days to read and respond. They are NOT compatible with your lifestyle and they will auto-vet themselves in the process. This is not about playing games – you are busy! Patience and understanding are key characteristics your ideal guy must have.

Dating Myth #2: Instant Messenger is a quick way to connect with a man to see if he’s your type.
Dating Fact:

Avoid Instant Messenger at all costs because it typically attracts low quality men who waste your time, leaving you exhausted and fed up. There are plenty of lonely (and married) men who will IM chat you forever. Men should be qualified before you give them that amount of interaction. A man who is truly interested in you will ask to speak with you after 2 or 3 emails.

Note: A quick chat on the phone as soon as possible is the best way to see if there is a connection. Why? It would be a shame to spend weeks emailing back and forth only to find out there is no connection when you speak live.

Dating Myth #3: It is hard to meet men during the week.
Dating Fact:
Schedule your time creatively. Who said you have to go out at night? You can meet during the day. This is a great solution most women overlook. You have to eat or take a break during the day anyway, so why not meet for a quick lunch or coffee a 5-minute taxi ride away from your home or office?

Four reasons a “lunch meeting” is ideal:
• It is less intimate, so there is no “date pressure”. It’s just lunch or coffee.
• You don’t have to “make time” with this healthy form of multitasking (taking a break, eating and socializing at the same time).
• You easily and quickly qualify men to see if you’d like to see them again.
• If you don’t click, no need for excuses, you have to get back to work anyway.
There you have it – 3 dating myths exposed and debunked. Listen to my complimentary audios to increase your magnetic attraction. Download them now at:
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About the Author: Rhonda Cort

With over 10 years experience living internationally and working with entrepreneurs, CEOs, business owners, diplomats and influential people on 6 continents, mentor, speaker and stylist Rhonda Cort helps unleash your magnetic presence so you can naturally attract successful, top quality people to accelerate your love life in 90 days.
Make sure you listen to Rhonda’s free audios “Magnetic Goddess Secrets” for powerful magnetism in your personal life and the “Mojo Acceleration” audio mini-course for entrepreneurs who want to create an almost instant know, like and trust connection. Download them now at:
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